DO NOT BE CONTROLLED
To the fragile human race whom has taken up the character of accepting things the way they are, residing fate to whatever lifes has brought to them. To the human race who lives out of the mercy of situations around them, we tend to give up on things and accepting it the way they are,not changing it to what we want.
Like they say, its hard to let go of a gem. What if the gem wants to leave? It might be hard but you have to let it go, break away. If its your's it will eventually stay. Most people lives in the prison of their past, if you keep
doing this you will never move forward in life. Lets tend to control our lives positively.
If you want to live a great and meaningful life, dont allow yourself to be controlled by the following.
YOUR PAST ➡ Whatever left you its meant to leave, be it material things, relationship etc. You shouldn't let your past control your present and future life. Your past shouldn't be playing a role in your life. There's so much enthusiasm for life that comes with making peace with the past. Sometimes, events from the past keeps recirculating in our memory when all we want is for it to go off. You must learn to do just that. You will be responsible for whatever happens to you, give in the power to move on and forget what has been left behind. Leave the darkness of your past behind so as not to block the light of your bright future. The only way you can win the past is to LET GO & MOVE ON
Focus on building your future and living this moment happily. Be free of the past.
OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINION ➡ dont do things just to fit in, do things because it makes you happy and it gives you a sense of humour. What will they say if i do this, that shouldn't be the thinking. You only know you, Other people dont. Only you can see the inner side of you. The need to fit in and feel wanted may cause you to travel down paths you dont want to travel. People pleasing is a curse. Before doing things, always ask yourself "am i doing this because i want to, because i feel passionate about it or am i doing this to fit in a particular situation or group, to impress other parties ". You should be loved for who you are and not for what you do because of others judgement on you. We have all been hurt before by what someone else has said about us, but should we really care at all about what they think. More often people say spiteful words about others simply out of jealousy or ignorance and the reality is you are the only one that has the right to judge who you are. Listening to other people's judgment about you will only bring you down,it will hold you back.You cant please people all the time. Life's too short so ignore it.
LIMITED BELIEFS YOU PROJECT ON YOURSELF ➡ you shouldn't limit your beliefs, doing so will only deny you of your capability of doing things. Once you are able to eliminate the fear of limitation within you, no other outside force can stop you. Lead you beliefs from limited to unlimited. Dont let people around you who never reach for their dreams limit your own beliefs. Limiting beliefs are self doubts, insecurities, negative thoughts of others about you which you held on to.
There's nothing you can't do, there's nothing you can't have, no one you cant become if you believe in yourself. You are capable of changing IMPOSSIBLE to IM'POSSIBLE
RELATIONSHIPS ➡ we love to put our happiness on others,if you are always needing someone to be happy, then you are always one moment away from breakdown if that person leaves you. If the relationship you are in is not going on well, why not breakaway. There are meant to be issues in a relationship but what if the other party doesnt want to come to an agreement. You should move on, if they are yours they will surely be back. If you cant live your life happily without being in a relationship, if you can't spend a moment being single, you will surely end up with the wrong person.
You cant survive life if you depend on someone else for your happiness. You must become yourself and quit depending on others to make you happy. Look at life through your eyes and say "from now on, i will not allow someone else to drag me down, i am determined to be whole and discover my source of happiness.
No more leaning on someone else to give meaning and purpose to your life, you deserve to have a happiness that will not be lost because someone fails you. ALWAYS BE HAPPY.
MONEY ➡ in this increasing interconnected world, money and material things takes fully over our decisions. Whatever choice we make in life, it shouldn't be based on how much money is involved. Am not saying want money,without that we won't be able to do many things on this planet. You may do things for the purpose of money and still not find happiness in it. when you follow your heart, when you do things willingly the money and happiness will come abundantly.
Challenge yourself to live a good and meaningful life,
Be free from being controlled,
Find your discretion.
Like they say, its hard to let go of a gem. What if the gem wants to leave? It might be hard but you have to let it go, break away. If its your's it will eventually stay. Most people lives in the prison of their past, if you keep
doing this you will never move forward in life. Lets tend to control our lives positively.
If you want to live a great and meaningful life, dont allow yourself to be controlled by the following.
YOUR PAST ➡ Whatever left you its meant to leave, be it material things, relationship etc. You shouldn't let your past control your present and future life. Your past shouldn't be playing a role in your life. There's so much enthusiasm for life that comes with making peace with the past. Sometimes, events from the past keeps recirculating in our memory when all we want is for it to go off. You must learn to do just that. You will be responsible for whatever happens to you, give in the power to move on and forget what has been left behind. Leave the darkness of your past behind so as not to block the light of your bright future. The only way you can win the past is to LET GO & MOVE ON
Focus on building your future and living this moment happily. Be free of the past.
OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINION ➡ dont do things just to fit in, do things because it makes you happy and it gives you a sense of humour. What will they say if i do this, that shouldn't be the thinking. You only know you, Other people dont. Only you can see the inner side of you. The need to fit in and feel wanted may cause you to travel down paths you dont want to travel. People pleasing is a curse. Before doing things, always ask yourself "am i doing this because i want to, because i feel passionate about it or am i doing this to fit in a particular situation or group, to impress other parties ". You should be loved for who you are and not for what you do because of others judgement on you. We have all been hurt before by what someone else has said about us, but should we really care at all about what they think. More often people say spiteful words about others simply out of jealousy or ignorance and the reality is you are the only one that has the right to judge who you are. Listening to other people's judgment about you will only bring you down,it will hold you back.You cant please people all the time. Life's too short so ignore it.
LIMITED BELIEFS YOU PROJECT ON YOURSELF ➡ you shouldn't limit your beliefs, doing so will only deny you of your capability of doing things. Once you are able to eliminate the fear of limitation within you, no other outside force can stop you. Lead you beliefs from limited to unlimited. Dont let people around you who never reach for their dreams limit your own beliefs. Limiting beliefs are self doubts, insecurities, negative thoughts of others about you which you held on to.
There's nothing you can't do, there's nothing you can't have, no one you cant become if you believe in yourself. You are capable of changing IMPOSSIBLE to IM'POSSIBLE
RELATIONSHIPS ➡ we love to put our happiness on others,if you are always needing someone to be happy, then you are always one moment away from breakdown if that person leaves you. If the relationship you are in is not going on well, why not breakaway. There are meant to be issues in a relationship but what if the other party doesnt want to come to an agreement. You should move on, if they are yours they will surely be back. If you cant live your life happily without being in a relationship, if you can't spend a moment being single, you will surely end up with the wrong person.
You cant survive life if you depend on someone else for your happiness. You must become yourself and quit depending on others to make you happy. Look at life through your eyes and say "from now on, i will not allow someone else to drag me down, i am determined to be whole and discover my source of happiness.
No more leaning on someone else to give meaning and purpose to your life, you deserve to have a happiness that will not be lost because someone fails you. ALWAYS BE HAPPY.
MONEY ➡ in this increasing interconnected world, money and material things takes fully over our decisions. Whatever choice we make in life, it shouldn't be based on how much money is involved. Am not saying want money,without that we won't be able to do many things on this planet. You may do things for the purpose of money and still not find happiness in it. when you follow your heart, when you do things willingly the money and happiness will come abundantly.
Challenge yourself to live a good and meaningful life,
Be free from being controlled,
Find your discretion.
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